The events over the weekend were memorable and meaningful at so many levels especially that they came on Mothers' Day weekend.  People forget that the original mother's day in the US was a declaration against war and oppression. The Interfaith Community for Palestinian Rights in Austin, Texas organized a memorial Saturday for Riad Hamad (attended by over 200 people) and two lectures for me at St. Edwards University (where I was introduced by Catholic Bishop John McCarthy) and Westlake Hills Presbyterian Church. Sunday we also attended church at St. James Episcopal Church and in the evening even had time to see the 1.5 million bats emerge from under the bridge (meaningful for me as my master's degree and first book were on "The Bats of Egypt").

Also we learned that this weekend 20 Jews of conscience were arrested in San Francisco for civil disobedience against the celebrations of Apartheid Israel. If you are Jewish, sign this pledge "No time to celebrate"  These events and activities and hundreds like them around the world gives us more hope that people make a difference.  In this week's message, I thus decided to share with you the original Mothers Day Proclamation and this link to a moving description of Riad's memorial

Below is the text of my comments at Riad's memorial. Those who were not able to attend and knew Riad, please send your stories to riads.stories@gmail.com (being compiled by Rita Hamad, his daughter). Donations in Riad's memory can be sent to PCWF (http://www.pcwf.org). If you live in Austin, please join, work, and donate to ICPR http://www.icpr-austin.org who are to be thanked for giving us with Riad's family such a meaningful weekend.  In Connecticut Monday night over 150 people attended the talk by Prof. Stephen Walt of Harvard (co-author with Mearsheimer of "the Israel lobby and US Foreign Policy" which is being translated to 18 languages) strongly placing the new group that organized it (Fairfield County for Justice in the Middle East) on solid foundations. All in all a weekend that Riad would be proud of.

Mothers' Day Proclamation
http://www.mothersdaycelebration.com/mothers-day-proclamation.html

Arise, then, women of this day! Arise all women who have hearts, whether your baptism be of water or of tears! Say firmly: "We will not have questions decided by irrelevant agencies. Our husbands shall not come to us reeking of carnage for caresses and applause. Our sons shall not be taken from us to unlearn all that we have been able to teach them of charity, mercy, and patience. We women of one country will be too tender to those of another country to allow our sons to be trained to injure theirs."

From the bosom of a devastated Earth a voice goes up with our own. It says "Disarm! Disarm!" The sword of murder is not the balance of justice. Blood does not wipe out dishonor, nor violence indicate possession.

As men have forsaken the plow and the anvil at the summons of war, let women now leave all that may be left of home for a great and earnest day of counsel. Let them meet first as women, to bewail and commemorate the dead. Let them solemnly take counsel with each other as to the means whereby the great human family can live in peace, each bearing after his time the sacred impress not of Caesar, but of God.

In the name of womanhood and humanity, I earnestly ask that a general congress of women without limit of nationality be appointed and held at some place deemed most convenient and at the earliest period consistent with its objects, to promote the alliance of the different nationalities, the amicable settlement of international questions, the great and general interests of peace.

Mazin Qumsiyeh statement at Riad's memorial

Note: The memorial for Riad attended by over 200 people from around the US was MC'd by Rev. Edward Hartwell of St. James Episcopal Church and included comments by Sheikh Mohammed Umar Ismail, Daughter Rita Hamad, lifelong friend Nina Glasgow, brother Omar Hamad, fellow Middle School Teacher Mark Kelly, Jack Prince of the IFCPR (who introduced me), a slide show presentation by son Abdullah Hamad, music performance by Lourdes Perez, and reflections by Diana HajAli Hamad.  Reflections and stories of Riad are being collected.  Please send yours to Riads.Stories@gmail.com

In the past few hours I kept contemplating what to say here.  You can see from this sheet that my original talk here is all marked off, edited and changed and will likely be rambling.  But I did hope I could preserve a few important things I wanted to say and add others but that has been difficult.  Several things cross my mind the rather quickly the first few seconds of meeting Riad over 8 years ago:
- He talks too much !
- He is too good to be true
- and then (and this was mentioned by other speakers) I would like to know more about this guy.

The parking lot outside the Church has several cars with bumper stickers "Free Palestine".  Those are the stickers Riad made and for which I recall that the last time we talked he asked me if I have received the new batch that he sent me through a mutual friend. Like others here and as always, when people leave us, we always wish we had said a few more things to them.  We wish we had told them more how we appreciated them.  So here goes.

Riad was always on the run.  When he did sit for a while like he did when he stayed at our home in CT, the conversations were always very interesting.  They ranged from weighty matters like the future of the Arab world to the mundane (like why I am failing at growing the Palestinian faqoos plan in my garden when I could grow everything else). 

The famous Lebanese American poet Khalil Gibran once said "you give very little when you give of your belongings, it is when you give of your self that you truly give."  Khalil and Riad will be remembered for giving of themselves.  When I first met Riad before he started the Palestine Children Welfare Fund, he was most passionate about the deteriorating situation in Palestinians living under occupation and in refugee camps.   In life there are those who are doers and those who are talkers and Riad was definetly a doer so it did not take him long to figure out where he can personally contribute.  His love of children was not just because 60% of Palestinians are under the age of 18.  Every other sentence he uttered you would hear from Riad seemed to contain things like "for the Children", how about the children etc.

Already, the year before he founded PCWF, over 200 Palestinian children were killed and hundreds were injured by the Israeli occupation authorities. But the impact on those not injured or killed was also devastating with unemployment reaching 60% , more than twice what it was in the hight of the great depression in the US.  Riad's solution was direct aid by selling Palestinian products, by collecting donations, and funneling money to those in need. 

Some of us have thought he was going too fast and thus putting himself and his projects at risk.  But Riad's imaptience was in a context of a relentless war carried by Israel with the support of the US against the people of Palestine. More